About the founder

Polly Tsonis; M.A.

Public Speaker/Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach/Creator of The Clarity Workshop

For over 20 years, I’ve dedicated my career to the field of intimate partner violence, with a more recent focus on narcissistic abuse. Public education has always been the heart of my work. I’ve delivered countless information sessions and workshops reaching thousands of people, including: teens, seniors, different cultural groups, medical professionals, nursing students, and even sports teams.

Narcissistic abuse is a form of violence that, for most of my career, was barely spoken about. Only in recent years has it finally come to the surface, revealing the profound harm it causes. After extensive training in this area, I co-founded NARC Busters with psychologist Dr. Mary Tsonis, Ph.D., to offer specialized support to individuals navigating these complex and draining relationships.

My mission is to create safe, supportive spaces, through workshops and coaching plans, for people to understand what narcissistic abuse really is. Confusion does not belong in your closest relationships. It’s not “miscommunication.” It’s not something you’re supposed to endure. It is a sign of abuse. You deserve a healthy relationship where there is peace, clarity, transparency, and emotional safety.

My goal over the years has remained the same: Help people gain clarity, feel empowered, and better understand the dynamics of abuse so they can reclaim their sense of peace, safety and direction.

When you understand what’s happening to you, you have more control over the direction of your life. My work focuses on helping you find that clarity, so together, we can build a personalized activity, workshop, or coaching plan, that supports your needs and honours your experience. Everyone deserves a life of peace and I’m here to help you move toward it.